This is not dark sexual, per se. Hi The asteroid Eros plays a role in sexual attraction as well. And as far as I know theres a strong correlation between nessus and psychopaths/abusers. This is another clear-cut past life astrology marriage aspect, although it isnt as heavy. His nessus is in conjunction with his true node in geminis (in opposition to my uranus and my vesta). I often am able to get away in time, and at other times I can get away only to a certain degree. I am looking to add 5 more aspects and would love your opinions! All of astrology is neutral. and DW : womans Nessus (13 Gemini) opposite mans Juno ( 12 Sag). It wasn't until he began to withhold sex from me that I finally crumbled. Hello, what a great article, thank you. However, if you have Nessus/Dejanira and Mars/Uranus, particularly in hard aspect( opposition and square), it may make for dark spice, shall we say. Do you see what I mean. Thank You so much for this info. Sun person helps Lilith person recognize their subconscious gifts and strengths. No worries. Eros is a spicy little asteroid who generates excitement in relationship astrology. Pluto conjunct Sun synastry indicates a powerful and transformative relationship. Welcome, Ariel and great questions. Since both Eros and Lilith are isolated energies buried deep in the unconcious, the erotic transformation which takes place upon their meeting is deep with raw and intuitive spiritual potency. Lilith is not dark, per se, Friend. M. % would be more ambient but felt imo Maria dear. In Roman mythology, Eros was known as Cupid. Saturn draws the couple together due to karma, but Juno and South Node aspects offer more of a choice. Your words mean a lot to me! We need to look at the whole chart to see the whole story. Check house placement and aspects to further your . If you want to ask about 2 aspects, I will try to answer but an answer on the whole relationship needs an entire chart reading. the Moons will make for best friends. I am prone to being attacked in this way. I often see this aspect in the charts of couples who have been married for many years. Isis Conjunct the Vertex. I wasnt abused as a child in any way. I also have Nessus in 22 Virgo exactly opposite my Sun, conjunct my Asc in 18 Virgo, and I am NOT an abuser, unless its in self defense.Either way, I dont enjoy hurting people. Retro makes one thoughtful, so I do not see it as bad as many do. Moon/Pluto in a trine is very powerful, too. Ami, Christian Psychic Readings & Astrology Charts for All Faiths. What about this aspects? Thank you for your response, I appreciate it very much. Btw he just got married to a girl whose moon is conjunct with his nessus+sun+true node AND also, her dejanira is conjunct with his moon !!! Also, I discovered that my daughter has Dejanira conjunct her 2H Virgo Moon(3 deg. Now, we come to things that could really make the relationship dark. Sydney, you are amazing. Notify me of follow-up comments by email. The Nessus person brings abuse to the ASC/DSC person. If an asteroid is conjunct an angle or a planet, placed in a prominent position, or stands out because of some other reason, it can provide an additional layer of insight in chart analysis. Hi! Before I leave this subject, I will add my theory. I have 8 scorpio ascendant and he 4 scorpio jupiter. In order to post comments, please make sure JavaScript and Cookies are enabled, and reload the page. With the Lilith conjunct sun, the Sun person is seduced by the other Lilith person. First of all Lilith is for . For teaching purposes, one must break things down, so it may seem like it is contrary but it is really not, imo, Sandy. Their capacity for intimacy and shared desire to melt into the fires of transformation is nothing short of total risk, which each are compelled to take- no questions asked. You, as the Pluto in the trine with his Sun and venus could kind of see through him lol, Thank you Amy for your reply We are both passionate, but luckily, by nature, not violent people thank God . One person is kind of riding the other one in this. The issue is that me disagreeing with you being fatalistic (because what you say is not what always happens, not even 60% of the time because I have nessus/dejanira aspects with most people that are close to me, and I have never been abused or attacked in any of those relationships) does not mean that Im not accepting the truth. The Basic House Rulers23 Simple Steps for Beginners. . Romantic Conjunctions in the 12th House If you see any intense conjunctions between the Sun, the Moon, Juno, the South Node, Saturn, Venus, Mars, Lilith, etc. Pluto trine Venus, Venus quincunx Pluto Thank you, Amiann. Thats your opinion. As long as we kept connecting the way we had been sexually, I was willing to "fight" for what I thought we had and felt I could withstand anything. and should I post the picture of the chart (I usually get it from astro.com)? Saturn conj Mars in Scorpio could produce a kinky kind of thing. or is the bad guy Nessus only dangerous when in conjonction with Dejanira ? -Eros conjunct their personal planets ( Sun,Moon,Venus, Mars etc.). Uranus is kink, so you do the math. This really highlights this magnetic quality to this conjunction and creates a situation where each individual holds the . Its completely okay to stand by what you wrote. Eros/Pluto/Lilith together makes for one powerful combination. Finding Jesus is all that really matters in life. As such, I would be careful and watchful. We are not discussing potential long-term compatibility between the sexes, not the love match-rather, signs of initial sexual attraction and knee-jerk reactions between two people. There is precious little practical info out there on asteroids. Think sitting next to a roaring fire. It may be the abuse takes place in the home or within the family. Eros in synastry Tell me, what is it like? Then my Nessus is 29 Cancer in almost exact opposition with the child asteroid at 28 Cap. Isis is extreme devotion to the partner in the bravest, most selfless way possible. Also, It doesnt suit me. woman s Dejanira and Juno, ( 445 and 432 Scorp ) both conjunct mans Eros and Chiron, (510 Scorp, 530 Scorp ) and both OPPOSITE mans Nessus (6 Taurus) It is disrespect to Astrology which I love and respect. Could you specify what you mean by abuse (subtle, verbal, violent etc.?)? I know this is an article for synastry, but Im a little worried about my natal chart after reading about Nessus and Dejanira. Ami, no one can describe astrology better than you. Lilith desires sacred sex above all things. What significance would you place on someones Juno conjunct my vertex, south node as well as very-widely conjunct my sun (same sign). I could not agree more with this. I think the Nessus/Deja relationship in synastry is a re-play of childhood abuse. However, it's recommended to do an individual birthchart analysis before analyzing the Synastry to see the personal needs and potential for maintaining a healthy relationship. Everyone should have one once in a lifetime, I suppose. Dark sexual relationship synastry top 5 | Signing. This isn't always a bad thing, however. Your passions are overwhelming, spontaneous, and you develop your attractions without even thinking about it. Who would bring who abuse? I was wondering how abuse would play itself out if the Nessus-Deja synastry conjunction is in Cancer. Thank you, amiann. I have this aspect with someone Im seeing. It can be done but it is rare that someone reaches that level of spiritual mastery. A Sun conjunct Lilith transit highlights the power traits like charisma, magnetism, emotional force and leadership qualities of the Sun. It is really rocking my world right now <3. I wonder if that would mean that he IS an abuser but couldnt abuse me ?? Great questions. in the 12th house, you might be safe in assuming that there was a marriage or long-term relationship in a past life. And when you really think about it this line of thought deserve to be abused is quite sociopathic in nature. There is always a risk with Eros when he falls on a personal planet of point, and meeting Lilith is the greatest of them. "I want to welcome you to my website. We do not have enough information on every aspect, and never will because again, no interpretation is set in stone to be able to tell someone that something is most certainly going to happen. Conjunction, Opposition, Square, and Trine! These aspects or connections have a "mean't to be" feel to them, it's a potent place to look at in synastry. Eros & Psyche in. The lilith person knows exactly how they effect the ic and can really play with them over time. Lilith Synastry Sun and Lilith conjunct in the synastry chart When Sun person's Sun and Lilith person's Lilith combine, each person awakens the deep desire for individuality and creativity in each other. Maybe, maybe not. Does this mean anything? Come and post the charts. They often indicate a desire to sexually conquer/arouse one another. Is there anything I can do to help her? This is my opinion and other people may differ but I call things as I see them, Mandy dear. Thanks! There are many past life synastry charts that dont show marriage through these 5 obvious aspects, but its clear from reading the whole chart that the pair had a significant relationship in a past life. The Lilith person might have trouble with issues surrounding desirability. Yet despite this fearsome reputation she was often dismissed as " a minor Babylonian wind deity " or similar. Eros Conjunct the Midheaven: This synastry aspect will be quite powerful for both parties since it will impact the way that the world views them. Eros in a synastry chart. I use the term female, but it would be the same for either sex. My Sun and Mercury sandwich this conjunction by four and three degrees. Venus mars aspects The conjunction is excact. In fact, it is the opposite. I'm really only just starting to get to know Eros well, and Lilith is still somewhat elusive. You truly made my day! Sorry if this came off mean, I just dont want people to get scared over having one aspect when astrological interpretations are not set in stone. The conjunction is especially strong, but the trine, square, and opposition can also indicate a past life connection or marriage. I also have moon trine neptune, venus conjunction chiron snd more aspects to do with empathy. It sounds really bad I guess, but this person has given me so much positivity and encouragement and I feel has set me on a positive path. Lovely, Lo! For that reason, I am not for everyone and know this but I seem to be appreciated by people who think like I do. What would you say about moon conjunct pluto in a composite chart. When you say one which you contemplate, do you mean that the person is aware of the abuse tendency and tries to deal with it? It exposes our weaknesses and provides us a chance to deal with them constructively. Lilith cops the craziest projections - that she could cause miscarriages or tried to wreck men's marriages via 'erotic nightmares' and so on. This totally depends on someone as a person. They are deceiving themselves, would be a better way to say it. Hey there! (double-whammy..) Yes, it would. In other words, if a mans Nessus conjuncts your ASC, he will abuse you, in my opinion. You example above is only if a woman has Dejanira conjunct a mans ASC, Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars, Venus or NN, you will be his victim. Any feedback on the roles being reversed? Why dont you come and put the chart up on my Forum? Their chemistry is obvious even after all these years but she did recently reveal that some light BDSM play is involved. Thank you Ivs. Her theme is power-alluring and irresistible. My dejanira is in opposition to his sun and without any other aspects. To summarize, I would say that Mars/Pluto could be passionate sex and passionate emotions but no soul.If a chart had no Moon aspects and Mars/Pluto aspects, I would say it would be a fling. This aspect can bring intense emotions, profound personal growth, and the potential for both positive and negative experiences. The Saturn person may kind of ride the back of the Mars person. Thank you F for being here and for taking the time to comment.What do you mean exactly? That is why I dont mince words. Composite: moon conjunct Neptune, Venus square Pluto, Black moon lilth conjunct Pluto square mars conjunct ceres..any explanations on this type of relationship would be very helpful!!?? No point living in fear for aspects that may not play out. with Dejanira conjunct his natal Sun I feel like it helps me. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a, Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 Not good, my Friend. Lilith on the ic is one of the more potent lilith synastry to have even in the composite. One other thing that might be helpful with this asteroid pairing, and one that I think is quite meaningful. However, if you want me to help you to find Jesus, that is why I am here. There are no planets conjunct or square either Nessue or Dejanira in either chart, the only conjunction is her Dejanira to his Nessus. I think theres a trine or sextile to other asteroids but nothing major. My Dejanira is in 5 Sag, like his North Node. I also found out that my Nessus is 1 degree conjunct my current boyfriends Sun(Cancer). I was wondering how much weight can have the orbit in a synastry.. for example, I have with a guy a Venus trine Pluto, but 5.46 orbit.. does it counts? 2) I just started going out with a guy, we have good chemistry and just checked our natal charts and see we share amazing aspects except for my dejanira. A later relationship was abusive (a psychopath) His Nessus square my Sun You could post it in my Forum if you would like, Eva. I had waaaaay more rage than he did (granted, there were reasons for that) and said things so hurtful that I wince now when I think about them. Amazingly accurate. If you do not have either of these in the natal but have them in synastry, it will play out the same way. They may cause each other significant pain and strife, but God help any outsider who dares to point it out. If it feels too, too good to be true, it often is. That is my commitment to my readers. What about Nessus conjunct Dejanira in synastry and there is no abuse whatsoever, what would that mean? Nessus is the abusers asteroid. Not sure which one id prefer. 12 degrees is WAY too much to be conj the ASC, my Friend. Lilith Conjunct Ascendant Synastry Sun Conjunct Lilith Synastry This connection will burn as hot as the sun! 10. You may be fated to marry. Coming from a standpoint of being an archaeologist, we can interpret and theorize things ourselves all we want, but an archaeologist telling a crowd of people that their own interpretation of the past is the TRUTH would not only be incredibly wrong, but it would also be detrimental to people that no nothing about interpreting and analyzing archaeological sites, therefore they would take that persons word even though it is not truth. under what theme of the forum? Please post the charts. My main point is reflection. The Lilith person brings sexual energy that is literally untamed. Yes, I was thinking about this. His natal mars, lilith, pluto conjunction is conjunct my ic and I've distanced myself from him knowing that he has wayyyy too much power over me, but every time I see him I can barely stand and immediately start shaking I am glad my post was helpful! Further, there is such a thing such as free will. I'm still not even sure if Eros/Lilith contacts are positive or negative? Not all people with a prominent Dejanira are victims I disagree.I think they will be until they can truly overcome it with God. Eros-Psyche: Eros and Psyche are natural mates. There is attraction based on dark forces like rage, pain and abuse. I mean, a persons life is complicated. It was a relationship based on dates and romance instead of the realities of life.